vowBDSM task & habit tracker · 18+
Hold each other to it.
Vow is a private BDSM task and habit tracker for any Dom/sub dynamic. The Dom sets tasks, rewards and punishments. The sub checks things off, earns points and keeps a streak. Everything you write is end-to-end encrypted, so only the two of you can read it.
Get vow on Google PlayFree. No ads. For partners, play partners and long-distance dynamics. Run more than one dynamic in one app.
Built for power exchange
Tasks and protocols
Daily, weekly, one-time or every few hours. Due times, notes, reminders, and 50+ ready-made ideas to start from.
Points and rewards
Kept tasks earn points. The sub spends them on rewards the Dom grants. Streaks and tiers keep the momentum.
Punishments
A missed task can cost points or carry a punishment (a consequence), always checked against the sub's limits first.
Rules you both sign
Write your agreement, sign it with a hold, and see every change. A shared journal and weekly check-ins keep you talking.
Limits and pause
The sub sets hard and soft limits and can pause everything at any time. Nothing new can be assigned while paused.
Private by design
Titles, notes, rules and journals are encrypted on your phones. Fingerprint lock and discreet notifications.
How it works
- Choose who holds the key. One of you is the Dom (lead), the other the sub (follower).
- Pair your phones with a six-character invite code, or set things up alone first.
- Set the first tasks and rewards, sign your rules, and start your streak.
Questions
Who is vow for?
Consenting adults in a Dom/sub, Master/slave, Daddy/little or any other power-exchange dynamic: partners, play partners, online or long-distance. Each dynamic is one Dom and one sub, and you can belong to several.
Can anyone else read our tasks?
No. What you write is encrypted with a key that only your two phones hold. Our server stores ciphertext it cannot read. See the privacy policy.
What does it cost?
Vow is free, with no ads and nothing locked behind a subscription.
How is Vow different from other D/s apps?
Three things: it is free, everything you write is end-to-end encrypted (not just “private”), and consent is built in: the sub’s limits are checked before any punishment, the sub can pause at any time, and your rules are signed by both of you.